Re: The comment that PU is 60% body language, and adding to that eye contact, which was in the mailbag.

Your body language, facial expression, and eye contact are really automatic, and you have to really work to control them. What they display is what you are really thinking. Other people can read this instinctively, even if they are not overtly aware of it. Rather than trying to fake it, isn't it more effective to change what you are thinking?

If you think, "I'm not good enough - this chick is too hot for me, I hope she gives me some tidbit of validation", she will know either overtly or as a gut feeling, which is really just a message she is getting from her built in body/face/eye language interpreter. If you change what you think to, "She is lucky I want to fuck her", and really believe it, won't you automatically give off a different set of messages which will be far more effective?

Which brings us back to the foundation of PU, Inner Game. Practice thought control. You are what you think, think good thoughts.

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PS: Great show as usual. Thanks.

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