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The Rhythm of Life

Push Pull follows the natural rhythm of the universe, and that is why you should always employ it when interacting with women. Think of the tides, the moon cycles, the rising and setting of the sun, the seasons. Think about the way good partner-dancing looks and feels. Observe the way the wind blows through the trees. To everything there is a natural ebb and flow, a graceful and perpetual intensifying and diminishing of intensity. Continue reading…

Ladies and Gentlemen, I am rapidly moving towards the completion of certain business affairs that will free up a lot more time for writing and traveling. It has been a hectic couple of months, and I really appreciate your continued support and well wishes. 

Next up on The Joseph W. South Show! will be my interview with Paul Janka. I had begun the preparation to the conclusion of my series on Social Proof, and I realize that I have enough good material for at least two more shows. So I believe it’s best we put the Janka interview out there so you guys can get a taste for what the man is all about, without too much further delay. With any luck, this will be available to you in the next couple of days. Continue reading…

I must confess that I have had difficulty deciding how to focus my attention lately, given the exploding financial crisis in the United States of America, and now spreading to Europe and the rest of the world. Many of you do not know this, but one of my favorite topics of study – right up there with female psychology and male-female relationships – is the study of economics. But my tack is different than the way most people might imagine. 

I want to give a big shout out to “The Beast”, who reminded me of how Social Proof ties in with economics, in a discussion over on the Real Modern Man Forum. 

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This is reposted verbatim from Craig’s List. I saw this a couple of years ago and had forgotten about it. What do you guys think?

(note: It’s important to always keep in mind that every woman is different, and if you don’t understand that NO MEANS NO, then you deserve JAIL TIME, not a beautiful woman). 

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WRITTEN BY A WOMAN:

Dear Men of Craigslist, 

Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less please. In a post-feminist society, you never know exactly what you should be doing. Women are bloody picky, I know we are. It can be scary, too, when women freak out about what appear to be benign issues. And men who do their best to be respectful, female-positive humans, I salute you, I do. 
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NOTE: I am currently working on the conclusion to Social Proof Part III. To hear Social Proof Part II, go here. Immediately following that will be my controversial interview with Paul Janka.

Well I have to admit that the recent financial market turmoil has been rattling my nerves this past week. It’s hard to concentrate on seduction when the whole world seems to be in peril. In the big scheme of things, however, these events – although rare – are really nothing new. But they do help me to put things in perspective, and reassess my priorities.

“The Way You Start is the Way You’ll Finish”… a classic line from my man Player Supreme. My main focus  Continue reading…

I finally got a nice YouTube plugin installed, so expect more videos like this, that we can discuss. I’ll be covering topics such as body language, eye contact and so on, where video clips can be a big help in demonstrating the point. 

By the way, if you haven’t yet checked out Real Modern Man’s new Forum, please do so now. The first five people to start an intelligent thread there are going to receive copies of Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man. 

Now, on to our video…

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Each year the Cayman Islands gets menaced by hurricanes. Wonderfully, however, the Cayman Islands rarely gets a direct hit. The unnamed storm in 1932 and Hurricane Ivan were 72 years apart. 

We give the storms names and personal characteristics because in the minds of the people concerned, these organic balls of mayhem are true monsters. Continue reading…

I am loving my new WordPress Blog! Many thanks to Oleg for helping me get this up and running.

Today I am going to be calling in to my man Jordan’s Maxim Radio show… Game On with Jordan Harbinger, Maxim Radio, Sirius Satellite 108. Here’s a sample clip of his show. Big things are happening for Jordan these days, and if you haven’t yet seen his awesome new blog, check it out now! Continue reading…