Proper Escalation

Greetings Ladies and Gentlemen!

I had an absolutely wonderful time with Jordan, Joshua, Johnny and Benjamin, and student Jake, in the Cayman Islands last week. It was a fucking blast and the guys are great. I highly recommend you get signed up for a bootcamp with these guys ASAP… you will have a lot of fun and you will learn so much… I am a pro and I definitely learned from these guys! And incomparable fun times all around…

I consider myself an expert in relationship management. I currently have multiple girlfriends and I have a great time and love them all. A guy asked me if I had any special training or what makes me such a fucking expert. Well, I have read virtually every single good book or article there is on this topic. I learned from the very best. More importantly, in my 38 years of life so far, I have made every conceivable relationship mistake that a man can make So if you have a relationship question, MLTR or otherwise, you’ll want to talk to me

So with that out of the way, let’s get to the topic at hand.

I know a lot of guys are getting really good at opening, attracting and bantering with women, but not able to seal the deal as often as they would like. There are a lot of potential causes for this. Today I want to cover just a few very basic but powerful concepts.

She wants it more than you do!
Women actually love sex more than men do. Deny this all you want, but it’s true. I have a very high sex drive, I have slept with close to 100 women, and I have had hundreds more blown opportunities where I fucked up. Just think of how a woman sounds when she is having sex and having an orgasm compared to the way the average man sounds. Vocal tonaity don’t lie! LOL. Think of the sheer OBSESSION women have with fashion, beauty, looking youthful, celebrity gossip, romance novels and the multi-billion dollar vibrator industry.

If you want some of the biological and evolutionary reasons for my beliefs, check out my shows on Female Sex Drive. Anyway…

The reason men aren’t getting laid as much as they want to, in spite of the sheer mass of horny females, is quite simple:

1. There aren’t enough men who are both available and know how to attract them properly. I would say that MOST men for women are barely tolerable. The men who REALLY know how to get them hot are few and far between… or taken!

2. This point is absolutely vital to understand. While a woman wants it more, IT TAKES HER LONGER TO GET AROUSED. There are all kinds of biological reasons why this is NECESSARY, but just trust me that a woman generally takes longer to get aroused than a man does.

Now, why is this so important for your ability to close?

In my experience, one of the most arousing things you can do to a woman is to PLAYFULLY TEASE. In other words, FLIP THE SCRIPT. Cavemanning is FINE. The thing is, you have to keep a frame that SHE WANTS IT MORE. Make her say PLEASE. I am totally serious about this. You should never be in a position where you are begging, pleading, asking, or doing anything needy at all when it comes to sex. Adopt the mindset that SEX is YOUR GIFT TO HER… really internalize that mindset, and you will go very far

Next I will talk about the proper way to kino escalate.