The Madonna/whore Complex

The entire reason that women have an “anti-slut defense is because
of the Madonna/whore (M/w) Complex.

I firmly believe that women love the actual
sexual act more than men do. Nashville Playboy keeps saying
this over and over and he is right. Tyler
Durden said something fucking funny which
ties in with this. Have you ever heard the
sound of a woman who is having an orgasm? Do
men usually sound anywhere near that in
intensity, duration or sheer enthusiasm?
(then Tyler mimics a girl cumming… I don’t
care what the haters say, he knows his shit).

The reason women put up this front about
being a good girl and “not easy” and all this
bullshit is because… of men! It’s MEN who
call women sluts and look down upon them for
being “too easy”.

Yes, women do this too, but for different
reasons. There is a social decorum and women
subcommunicate and are expected amongst
themselves to “play fair”. And they are in
fierce competition with one another for the
very best guys. So when a woman comes on too
strong towards the men at a party, depending
on the group, she can expect her “friends” to
call her out on it.

There really is a secret society, and the men
that women really want are the true, non-
judgmental, LOVERS of women.

An AFC will fuck a girl at a party because
she is “easy”, or a “slut”. If they believe
she is a good girl, they will be afraid to
state their intentions with her, to touch, escalate, isolate and penetrate her.

So it comes full circle. “Yeah I fucked a slut
at the party”. “No I am gonna take her on 5
dates first because she is a good girl”.

Why does the “slut” do this, breaking all the
“rules?”. Well, she may be a sexually
liberated woman and genuinely not give a
shit. The mythical HSE Freak. Or, she may be
desperate and lonely and LSE and will take
what she can get. The fact of the matter is,
the guys who she is most likely to attract
are NOT PUAs, but chodes. But not for the
reason you might think.

Chodes think that a girl like that is going
to be “worthless” as a girlfriend, so it
becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. But a
true player understands something different.
He knows that the majority of other MEN think
that way, but HE DOES NOT. Therefore a girl
throwing herself at a chode lacks discretion,
feels she has no shot with a real masculine
man, and takes whatever scraps she can get.

Don’t be fooled, average women are
FRUSTRATED, HORNY, and DESPERATE. And there
are so few men who don’t act like chodes.

I want you guys to consider that the M/w
Complex is a very real phenomenon and it
affects both men and women, but in different
ways. Can you see how it is actually a sexual
turnoff for a woman to be surrounded by men
who are so terrified of her sexuality that
they would ostracize her and call her names,
in some countries even beat her with rocks,
if she dares to express it?

Now, I got to thinking about this because
there is a prevailing view on this board,
even among supposed players, that if a woman
“gives it up” too easily she is not LTR
material and if she makes a guy wait then he
is “safe” to keep her as an LTR.

I am sure most of us have had the experience
of a girl who acts the good girl with us but
we find out she has done outrageous stuff
with other guys, stuff we never thought she
was capable of, like ONS, threesomes,
bisexual stuff, etc. Consider yourself lucky
to have heard such stories because it’s
almost any woman’s worst nightmare to have
the mass of men loaded with M/w to find out
about such things. And the average,
frustrated women out there will often
backstab a girl who seems to be breaking the
rules.

Let’s assume for a minute that a girl really
likes you and wants you as a LTR boyfriend.
Women can tell INSTANTLY if you have M/w.
They really can. In history and in some cases
today they can actually DIE if they are
unable to suss out men who are a danger to
them, and men with M/w are a threat to women.
They know this instinctively!

But, she really digs you and doesn’t think
you are that bad in your fucked up views of
female sexuality, so she plays the good girl
role that you expect of her. It might work
out and it often does. But this is not ideal!

First of all, if your GF is really, truly,
animalistically sexual, don’t you want to
know about it? Not in a jealous, envious,
and fearful way, like a chode, but in a “I
have an incredible gift to appreciate with
this woman!” type of way.

Second, what do you think women fantasize
about? I am not talking directly about sex –
anyone who thinks women are delicate or
timid should go right now and buy a copy of
My Secret Garden – I am talking about, when
a woman thinks about a husband or an LTR. Do
you think she is imagining a guy who really
believes that if a woman sleeps with him “too
soon”, that would make her a slut?

Do you believe she lies awake at night
dreaming of making her special prince wait
for 1-2-3 dates, or months or more, until
“the time is right” and “it’s ok” to have
sex?

I sure don’t think so. I think women dream
about love at first sight. That everything is
wonderful and just right from the get go. The
man has no weird hangups that she has to
battle past, she has nothing to prove with
regards to how sexual she is in a negative
sense, she only can’t wait to open her heart
and her legs to this man and she really,
really cannot wait. She will be delighted to
be TEASED by a man who possesses tremendous
self control but is certainly not afraid of
her or her pussy and certainly not confused
about what to do with it.

From my experience and everything I know
about women and what women have told me
themselves, when they fantasize about a man
the sex happens in a matter of HOURS, if not
quicker, and the MAN… here is the
clincher.. has NO fucked up notions about
what negative things that might say about
HER. He is non judgmental and can ravish her
mind and body exactly the way she is.

Just think of how cruel it is to have the
tools to arouse a woman in a powerful way,
and then start to get funky and awkward
because the woman is RESPONDING, exactly as
she was created to do. Or even worse,
thinking this woman COULD have been my GF if
she did not respond so readily to my skills.
I hope you can appreciate that that says a
lot of negative things about YOU, and that
this will impede the quality of women you can
get on a consistent basis.

For me, a “high quality woman” is one who
makes me hard, treats me well, and respects
my business and my reputation. Period.

Thoughts?